5 Things you should know about your Best Friend

It’s never about the time period, but about the moments spent together which make that relation, the relation of lifetime. One such beautiful togetherness is Friendship.

You may have been best friends since childhood as we call it chaddi buddies or may have known each other from just past a few years, but always feel a bond of forever and for always as BFF (Best Friend Forever). Well, yeah it does feel like you are together since your previous lives; whether you were human, monkey, elephant or alien :P

“Best Friendship” sounds so soulful; it is about Celebration “kuch meetha ho jaye” every time you think about each other when you are apart, while swimming in the Chocolate Cake when you are together.

People say Best Friend is one who may forget your birthday but will never your side during your bad times. WRONG!! Their presence equally matters during good times. Best friend is one who not only be helping you move a dead body but will also be there having jalsa together. Making each other feel special is part of the game. Good Friendships aren’t always easy. But it’s worth the effort to have that one person you can always be stupid with.

Different people, different views. There’s friends then there’s best friends. There’s a difference. What makes that difference? Let’s check it out –

-          Whom you can rely on, your confidante

-          The one who keeps blackmailing you for your dark secrets but will never harm you with them

-          Who not only understands the hurt behind your smile but will also be ready with the shovel to ground the murderer of that grin

-          One who share the madness you live with and call that hysteria the fun state of mind.

But there are five basic things which if you don’t know about your “partner in crime”, you don’t qualify being called BFF.

1. What’s in the name?
• What is your BFF’s full name
• What’s is your BFF’s parents and siblings name
2. Who’s who?
• Their crushes\
• The big thick journal of their dark secrets
3. I’m hungry
• Their favourite ice cream and the flavour
• They food they love
4. It’s all about entertainment
• Their favourite movie and music
• Their hobbies / interests
• Favourite sport
5. You & your Best Friend Forever
• According to your BFF, what would be their favourite quality in you and in them
• What would your BFF admire the most in you & in themselves

It’s knowing all about your best friend and loving them anyway. They say time changes and best friends may move apart; but never let your best friend become a stranger. The biggest mistake ever you can make is to drift from someone you once had the time of your life with.

Know it now, feel it and cherish it forever; because there is nothing more valuable than having someone in your life that reminds you of who you are the half cracked egg!! :D

Cheers to friendship!!

Dosti

Dosti wahi jo kabhi thamti nahi,
Dosti wahi jo badalti nahi,
Dosti wahi jo naape napti nahi,
Dosti wahi jo humesha badhti hai...kabhi ghat-ti nahi

Dost--> Dosti--> Masti
"Dosti ka yeh din, meri taraf se bahut bahut mubarak ho aapko"

Cheers :)

Bon Voyage to Florean Fortescue's Icecream Parlour

Car - Flying Ford Angila

Companions - Ronald Weasley, Hermione Granger and Harry Potter

Destination - Hogwarts to Florean Fortescue's Icecream Parlour

The summer holidays have started. With me as a new member of the Harry-Hermione-Ron squad, very much accepted being a adventure lover and muggle born, and a recent joinee at Hogwarts as 1st year's; the squad planned to take me to Florean Fortescue's Icecream Parlour to celebrate my 1st semester results and our new friendship. And even though they are my seniors, they are more of buddies with me; except one ragging incidence by Ron of course, Ron, my favorite of the lot, boy like, mischievous and carefree attitude. Hermione is my roommate cum confidante and best gal pal. 

Okay, so we packed bags and started our journey early in the morning, as we planned to go exploring a few places on our way to the Icecream parlour, where we planned to reach only in the night, followed by night trail at the Forbidden Forest (which is not forbidden anymore, since Voldemort and the dark age has lost to the goodness). and later camping.

We packed snacks like my favorite 2 min maggi, biscuits, wafers, juices, some wizardry chocolates and much more, thanks to Ron's never ending appetite.

We started from the Hogwarts first to the Burrows (Weasley's mansion) via train route, literally sitting on the Hogwarts Express (our car also parked on it, resting), listening to the story of Ron-Harry's flight to Hogwarts in Ford Angila at the start of their 2nd year. One hilarious story that is, Hermione and I couldn't stop laughing at Ron who was still making faces outta fear of getting hit by the train, back then.

After getting down at the station, we hit the country road, singing, chattering and snacking on our way to the Burrows. On our arrival we found that hot and delicious breakfast was ready and waiting for us, straight from Mrs. Weasley's kitchen. The house was surrounded by a huge field and a lake, I just loved it, so cosy and full of warmth of Mrs Weasley's love. Needless to mention full of magic, one place the dishes were doing itself and the other place two needle knitting a sweater for me, the one like Ron, Hermione and Harry had by Mrs Weasley. It was a great experience being at Ron's house. After spending sometime there and touring the fields we headed to the Godric's Hollow, Harry's hometown, the place where his parents reside until their demise. We kept chit chatting with the 3 sharing their stories of the Horcrux hunt and the Second Wizarding War. Their inspirational stories have made me respect them even more for their courage and love for fellow beings. We reached the Godric's Hollow by 1 pm and first went to pay homage at Harry's parents grave and then to a local restaurant for our lunch. The food was great all ordered by Ron.

Later, we headed for Diagon Alley at around 3 pm, the high street located in London. On reaching, we parked our Ford Angila outside and entered the Leaky Cauldron, the famous Wizarding pub and first place on the way to access Diagon Alley. We were l'il tired so thought to relax there. We ordered our Butterbeer, sang songs, danced on the beats of Just Beat It, in short had a great time. Harry also helped me getting familiar with the place. After finishing our drinks and l'il masti we headed to the rear courtyard and Harry tapped the bricks in the wall in a certain pattern and I watched that sight with curiosity. The tapping of 5 bricks around the hole in the wall opened the doorway to Diagon Alley.

Diagon Alley wasn't so crowded, thanks to summer holidays. We first went to the pet shop, as I was in real need of a Chipmunk. We bought my 1st and to my surprise a singing Chipmunk. Later, we went to visit Weasley's Wizard Wheezes, a joke shop founded by Ron's twin brothers Fred and George; which sells practical joke objects, viz. Extendable Ears, Love Potions, Pygmy Puffs, etc. But the thing which caught my eyes was Aviatomobile, a car toy depicting our real Ford Angila (brain child of Ron's dad). I bought it as a remembrance of this cool trip. I also bought Weasleys' Wildfire Whiz-bangs for Diwali celebrations, the festival added newly by the Indian Association to the Hogwarts list of celebrations. Needless to mention, I did enjoy my time with Weasley twins, they are super fun and friendly.

Harry, Ron and Hermione then took me around and showed me a few more places, sharing their memories. Our drive later headed to a l'il, cosy restaurant which was waiting for us to serve our hunger and finally to Florean Fortescue's Icecream Parlour, where I filled myself with the special multilayer Chocolate Sundae with lotsa nuts and choc chips and they also had their favourite icecreams. After our sweet and cold savoury, we headed to the night trail in the Forbidden Forest, but this time full of life, deer dancing, unicorns flying and colorful birds singing.

It is my most favourite and memorable wizardry road trip.

Always remember.. <Where there is Love, there is magic called friendship and a joy ride "Life">  .................Adios !!!

P.S.

• This post is dedicated to my Friends Forever and the fun time I had with them.
• Also it is for the contest by AmbiPurIndia @Indiblogger. Do vote if you like it. Feel free to comment here.

Friendship - forever and for always!!!

Life goes on, Time rolls on and We move on.

You me, we all make friends, Love them and try to Keep them, to eventually lose them someday; to time, to circumstances, to misunderstandings and miss deeds; which shouldn't have happened.

Sometimes you just sit down, look up and question why things went wrong, when and where? Sure enough of not getting the correct answer; you sarcastically smile at yourself and your life without your lovely friend, with tears in your eyes from trying to move on in life, leaving what has already been left behind. But in heart still wanting to pick up with them where you had left. Well matter of hearts is not easy for even Almighty God to understand.

Regret is not the solution; either you pick up where you had left or just Obliviate.

Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened. But if you can’t get back, you were never friends. If it was true, it will return minus ego and plus smiles. True friends will accept their mistake, apologize  give a tight hug and will come back to never leave you again. Friendship is to be cherished forever.

Never lose it with friends you were once two bodies, one soul with; shared every bit of your life, day and night. Because it’s just one life, hurting loved ones is the biggest mistake and losing them by the wrong choices you made is an offence.

Just remember, you were friends before anything else; the loveliest, the purest, the truest form of your being. Talk it out, because assumptions are the termite of a relationship. Don’t ever lose what you once considered your own. Fight with them, for them and bring them back; as once gone forever, you will only be left with the bitterest tears to be shed over their grave.

Remember that there are very few true Friends out of your big lot; you earn those gems with time, by god’s grace & your luck by chance and you really can’t afford to lose them, don’t let them slip away.

Honour Friend. Respect Friendship and you shall be the wealthiest forever and for always.

Cheers!!!