Hari Puttar aur uski toli :P

One eve I was watching a movie from my all time favorite movie series Harry Potter.

My dad always curious about my love for this movie series, that day finally asked me, "why do you like harry potter movies so much?" And I answered him saying its a fantasy movie and i just love it but that wasn't the satisfactory answer, not to me.

It got me really thinking that what is it about HP that I really love, what makes me feel so connected with its characters, what's in the movie that has a good hold on me?

I really can't ever afford to miss a chance to watch it and any disturbance in between calls for the third world war (have been many in my home between me and my kins :P).

Me and my l'il bro' are the true jodidaar when it comes to this movie, its the only time we watch it with so much love between us, otherwise its always the maar peet which we do with each other :D Mum gets very annoyed with our HP Love, because that makes us forget day and night, food and water and even our kins :P 

But the point is why do I love HP Series so much...dad's question made me think alot.

Well I think it is the Fantasy, Fiction, Magic, Friendship and its so wow Characters. But more then that what makes it so special is the reality in its unreality. We all know that this kind of magic doesn't exist, but is it really so? Well curiosity has no end...

As a kid (well not so kid, I was in 11th standard back then), when i saw this movie for the first time and I asked my mum, why these kind of schools are not there. And still in heart I wish to attend one.

The ride on the broom stick, the diagon alley, the game of chess, the spells and on top of everything the magic wand...everything is so fascinating!

The characters Hermoine, Ronald, Harry, Draco, Neville, Prof. Dumbledore, Snape, McGonigle, Dobby, the twins (Fred and George) they are all my favorite. While my love are Hermoine and Ron.

Everything is so fantastic about HP. Wish I could live such life, wish it was all really real and how I wish I had a magic wand.

But as they say, "Whatever you can imagine is actually possible" ...because where your imagination stops, train to my Hogwarts starts :)

Keep thinking. Keep making things happening. Because its just an arm length away!!!

Cheers...!!

P.S. Howarts is Real, it's Just hidden somewhere under lots of enchantments ;)

Friendship - forever and for always!!!

Life goes on, Time rolls on and We move on.

You me, we all make friends, Love them and try to Keep them, to eventually lose them someday; to time, to circumstances, to misunderstandings and miss deeds; which shouldn't have happened.

Sometimes you just sit down, look up and question why things went wrong, when and where? Sure enough of not getting the correct answer; you sarcastically smile at yourself and your life without your lovely friend, with tears in your eyes from trying to move on in life, leaving what has already been left behind. But in heart still wanting to pick up with them where you had left. Well matter of hearts is not easy for even Almighty God to understand.

Regret is not the solution; either you pick up where you had left or just Obliviate.

Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened. But if you can’t get back, you were never friends. If it was true, it will return minus ego and plus smiles. True friends will accept their mistake, apologize  give a tight hug and will come back to never leave you again. Friendship is to be cherished forever.

Never lose it with friends you were once two bodies, one soul with; shared every bit of your life, day and night. Because it’s just one life, hurting loved ones is the biggest mistake and losing them by the wrong choices you made is an offence.

Just remember, you were friends before anything else; the loveliest, the purest, the truest form of your being. Talk it out, because assumptions are the termite of a relationship. Don’t ever lose what you once considered your own. Fight with them, for them and bring them back; as once gone forever, you will only be left with the bitterest tears to be shed over their grave.

Remember that there are very few true Friends out of your big lot; you earn those gems with time, by god’s grace & your luck by chance and you really can’t afford to lose them, don’t let them slip away.

Honour Friend. Respect Friendship and you shall be the wealthiest forever and for always.

Cheers!!!

Pendulum...

Good - Bad; Bad - Good.

Life's a vicious circle. But sometimes i don't feel it is. Sometimes what we see is nothing but Bad; so much of it that Good tend to lose its importance. Is it really fair to someone, overwhelming bad and negligible good?

As they say "Good will definitely happen, if not now may be later". But i ask, will it really be worth waiting? You need something now and you really deserve it, but if you don't get it now then what is the use?

People say "Whatever happens, happens for good". Really?? Then why that good hurts? Is it really all Real or are we living in a superficial world full of pretenders.

But it all boils down to one word and that is Love, the very reason for the existence of any living being. The

foundation for happiness. But does love really exist or we just fool ourselves by saying it does?

Because we are only selfish creatures, it depends on our needs. A Pendulum, which changes with one's need. But yeah it does exist, I agree too. 

There are many aspects to Existence of Love;

You can love someone unconditionally and get the same in return - lucky people!!

You love but don't expect as there could never be something - self realization.

You love only to be taken granted by others, e.g. someone loves you till they are in need of it or may be they did love but eventually fell apart or may be you were just taken for a ride by them but whatever it was at the end of it you just keep wondering what went wrong.. and then there starts legendary waiting period. Waiting for things to get right, you trying to mend things, wanting things to change again etc etc., but does all this really happen? Only God knows (if at all (s)he exists).

People mostly forget what they once believed. They forget what they once thought is still right, only their outlook has changed. 

Things only work when you want them to work, never otherwise. Easy is not the spice of life, you need to change the course to make things happen, to get what you want dil se!! You lose yourself in the process of losing in what you once desired. Realization is not easy but must. Nothing is impossible. But anyways preaching doesn't work, your will does.

The point is never lose yourself in their wrong doings, don't punish yourself for their wrong deeds. You are an individual with an identity. Feeling bad, sad, down etc. is part of life. 

And as they say; Change is inevitable, Time never remains same for everyone. Believe in these words. Cry if you want, scream; just vent out all your negative feelings because Life goes on. Its you who has to decide - whether to go along hand in hand with life or keep mourning. I am neither saying that just forget and forgive and nor that you have to hold it tight; but you just need to see the mirror and think again about the beauty you see in it, the lovely creation by God (yes i believe that (s)he exist). Don't be pendulum to the people around. Let them prove their worth in your beautiful life.

Remember as you sow, so shall you reap. So just keep doing the good and the best will happen. Don't forget the hurt, but not to revenge or for self destruction but use it right for restoration.

Don't try to understand everything, because sometimes it is not meant to be understood, but to be accepted. Tough to digest but this is truth. Realization to the people who have done it all wrong with you may come with time. But frankly it hardly happens. I don't think they will ever understand you or your emotions; you have to understand yourself, love yourself!!

Be your own kind of Beautiful.

Ajnabee Raahein...

Ajnabee Raahon per chal pade jab,
tab Waqt ki kya Fiqar!

Fiqar toh milte un Raahiyon se hai,
jo Chod jaate hain beech Mod per!!

e - GO

EGO - A need for life, if it is in right amount, right way and is rightfully right. Self Esteem is the LOC.

In any relation, the breach of this LOC, not only will bring negativity but will act as a catalyst in the mass destruction of self and relationships.

We feel small in saying sorry, but actually doing so doesn't imply that one has lost or don't have enough courage or have lost the battle of words. Instead it means you respect the relation more. It can be with others or with self. Don't let ego penalize yourself.

Life is not fair to all, it doesn't give what one desires every time but it definitely gives a way. Hurdles will be there, they don't come knocking, don't give you time to prepare for the battle. So what we need is, find a way. Life gives us strength to get past the hurdles and strength is done by our will, optimism and near & dear ones i.e. in the form of beautiful relations in ones life. You just need to see them right. If missed / ignored, life can really knock you out.

We need calm mind and sound thinking. Life doesn't give second chances to everyone but when it gives we tend to ignore its importance. We give importance to our ego, to "I", to our never ending issues. We then can't see beyond self and that is what we call selfishness.

We don't really understand what other person is saying or intending to say. We only hear, what we like to hear at that moment. But if we try to listen instead of hear, we can avoid a lot of conflict.

Like seeing is not enough but the vision is, similarly hearing is not enough listening is.

Anger and Ego have the power to destroy everything. What can conquer them is only Love and Humble attitude.

Transparent Ego = Right Attitude.

A need for life.

Don't let anger and ego, destroy you and priced possessions in your life.

Say it, don't linger.

Be happy, keep happy.

February -- the month of love!!

February -- the month of love... Really!!???

Well, at least I don't see love around but only hatred, jealousy, fright, fight, terror, envious feelings, people trying to pull others down, cheating, revenge...the list is endless!! 

Here people are scared to compete with themselves, so try to pull others down or push them in the valley of darkness. They are sacred of losing, so try to win over less powerful or those they think are inferiors.

People don't like peace, always in the sight of taking REVENGE; the recent TERROR attack in Hyderabad is the proof. Why can't people just live and let others live!!??? They are not brave or powerful, they are cowards; the most FRIGHTENED ones, those who want to overpower others, possess them, own what is not there own, whether its people or country. Get a life, accept your short comings, try to compete with yourself.

Why people get jealous of others progress?? Why can't they just streamline there own capabilities? JEALOUSY, HATRED can only help your further deterioration; of values, self respect, individuality. One should channel there energy towards success. Learn from others, don't ENVY them. Don't worry about people who talk behind your back because who do, deserve that place - "BEHIND YOUR BACK".

People CHEAT, take shortcuts to earn, don't respect system, don't respect people. Result - total structural imbalance. Sufferers are there but in the long run the sinner pays. Just remember, "God is there to take revenge on your behalf. So don't worry, Be Barfi."

Human Being is a very complicated creation, mostly OBSESSED with what will happen next and in the worry of future they ignore present. In the worry of problems they tend to ignore people who love them, are there for them; they either don't pay attention or tend to take them for granted and forget that those are human beings too and there is an expiry to everything and a shell period for everyone.

In today's world Relationships have taken a back seat, which is wrong. One should remember that a healthy relationship is the key to a happy and fruitful life. Not all will stand by you, nor the material possessions will, but only your true loved ones. You can fight the battle alone, but a satisfactory win comes when you have your near and dear ones around with their forever-unconditional love. One should never ignore them. IGNORANCE is never a bliss.

It is rightly said that sharing helps; shared joy is double joy and shared sorrow is half sorrow...every problem has a solution and you can solve it, you just need to see the other way around.

A well known quote is "God can't be everywhere so he created Mother", I say, "mother can't be troubled every time so there is another creation called Friend." Friends are born healers, you just need to believe in them. 

One can achieve nothing without maintaining healthy Relationships, whether its with Self, other beings or even between countries. Make friends not foes. Never assume, assumptions are the termites of any relationship.

Bad things happen with everyone, how one respond defines their character. You can either fight yourself, your inner demons or just keep nagging and accusing others; the choice is yours.

WILL is the key word. Strong will power can conquer anything in this world; including your worries, hard wired brain, troubled heart and all the negativity.

As they say, "Where there is a will, there is a Way".

And as I say, "Positive attitude always wins".

Think Best, Better is on the way!!! 

Take a chill pill, its not the end... When God is not listening to you from quite sometime, then it means God is testing your capabilities.

Things will never go against you, if you are right.

Life is shorter than you even think, never loose on what you have, cherish love and life.

Cheers :)

ek chhand dosti ke naam...

Pehle mila karte the roz roz;
Chehron ko na padta tha khoj

Fir roz se din bane hafte, mahine aur fir saal mein ek baar;
Per fir bhi atoot woh jo humesha judi rahe through Dil ke taar

Kyunki contact mein rehna hai important;
Aur Dosti nibhana hai Super Important

Fir chahein mile sirf ek hour;
Rehna toh hume hai Dost Forever!!





P.S.

1. Dedicated to all my near and dear ones  :)
2. "chhand" is a hindi word, which mean "verse" --> a short poem :))